FOSTER carers Martyn and Lauren Nelson, from Brotton, share how they help local children feel safe, supported and settled with family life, with their family pets, including pony, Troy, playing a key role in their fostering journey.
Lauren explains that everyday routines and shared activities can make a significant difference to a child’s wellbeing.
“At the heart of fostering is making sure children feel safe, secure and happy,” she said. “Often, it’s the simplest things that help children settle in. Spending time outdoors, caring for Troy or going for a walk with the dogs can help children feel calmer and more confident.”
The couple recall fostering a young girl who loved horses but had never had the opportunity to ride. With a pony of their own she was able to spend time grooming and riding during her stay.
“She’s moved on now and has her own horse and competes in shows,” Lauren added. “It’s incredibly rewarding to see how far she’s come and know we were able to support her at an important time in her life.”
Martyn and Lauren began fostering around ten years ago, after speaking to a friend who was already a foster carer.
“We were only in our twenties when we made our first call to the fostering team and assumed we would be too young but there is no type of foster carer. You can be younger or older, single or married, working or not working.”
While fostering can be challenging, the couple say the positive impact outweigh the difficult times. They have since adopted a little boy they fostered, who has become a much loved member of their family.
When asked what advice he would give to anyone considering fostering, Martyn encourages people to find out more.
“Making that first call is the most important step,” he said. “Fostering can fit around busy lives. We both work, have children of our own and Lauren is studying at university. Support is available throughout and the difference you can make to a child’s life is huge.”
Cllr Bill Suthers, Cabinet Member for Children, explained:
“The council is looking for foster carers like Martyn and Lauren to place local children in high quality local foster placements, where they have a stable home environment and the support to help them grow, develop and realise their potential.
“Anyone wishing to take up fostering will receive comprehensive support from the council.”
If you think you can make a difference call 0800 9177771 or contact@fosternortheast.org.uk or visit www.fosterwithnortheast.org.uk